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I was eight when we came back to Fernhurst, the war had started, and in fact it had been going for about a year although nothing much had happened, everyone thought. Well if this is war it's not going to be too bad. Tanyard was not a good place to live. To see it now everyone say's 'What an idyllic place.'
When you have lived there at the time I lived there it is a different place all together; at least it is in one's mind. I have spoken before about it in my other book. But it is worth mentioning again because it is still so vivid in my mind still. To a youngster it was just about at the edge of the earth. So many other people lived in descent houses with running water, some even hot water. Bathrooms. Toilets. Even electricity.
We had none of these. A bucket in a shed down the garden was our toilet. Another bucket under a stone sink to catch the waste water. Yet another bucket to fetch the so-called clean water from the ditch out in Millhanger. I don't ever remember bathing. Water was too precious to waste on baths; it was either boiled in a saucepan, or in the copper, and it would not only take a long time to fill the copper, it would take a awful lot of wood to boil it, so that was used solely on washing day.
No it was out of a kettle and into a bowl and a good wash down, that was our bath. And as far as light was concerned a paraffin lamp was the order of the day. When I see what light a paraffin lamp gives out now I wonder how we managed. I remember dad shaving; a mirror propped up against the lamp on the table. This was an operation that was only undertaken a couple of times a week. What with the water shortage and the price of razor blades, made shaving a luxury rather than a necessity.
Dad would have to lather his face 3 or 4 times and scrape away half the evening to get rid of his stubble where the blade was so blunt, and I seem to remember him sliding it around the inside of a tumbler to get a little more life out of it. Friday night was always. 'Must shave night' He had to look smart for Saturday evening when he and mum would go to the village dance.
Well we would all go, and he wouldn't be home from work in time to shave before the dance so that would have to be done on Friday. They would whirl round and round the village hall doing. The Old Fashion Waltz. The Saint Bernard's Waltz. The Military Two Step. And all the more modern dances Waltz's. Quickstep's. And Tango's. They knew them all.
Then there would be great sadness when it got round to The Last Waltz. 'Another Saturday evening over' and at least another whole week before they could do it all over again. When the troops moved into the village it must have spoiled their Saturday's to a certain extent, they went to the dances to dance, not to watch fights, and drunken brawls. Where-as us kids were just the opposite, to us it all added to the excitement of life. In the early days I would sleep though all the dancing, and dad would carry me home.
I think those first few weeks at Tanyard were when we were issued with Gas Masks. I well remember the rubbery smell of them, at the time I think it would have been less smelly if we had been gassed. Still at least I didn't have the humiliation of those Red Mickey Mouse things, they were awful, and from what I can now remember they even had a tongue hanging out all the time.
What awful things they were. Anyway we soon got used to the smell of rubber and wouldn't venture out without it, in its little cube shaped box with a string on it to slip on our shoulder. We would have Gas Practice and they would see how long it took you to get it out of it's box and get it on, and the teacher would walk round and put her fingers in the side of the rubber face piece to make sure it fitted nicely and adjust the straps on the head piece until it did.
I'm sure not many of us realised how important it all was. Thank God gas was not used in that war. I think it must have been about this time that the. Air raid shelters were built at school, although they were thick brick built places with concrete lids on them I'm sure they wouldn't have done much good if a bomb had fallen quite near, I could have visions of that concrete slab falling on us kids sitting there in the dark.
I don't ever remember doing any schoolwork when we were in the shelters; it was too dark to do much, perhaps that's one of the reasons I turned out being thick. No to be quite truthful I can't remember being in them for very long at one time. There were several mornings we had to go strait into them on arriving at school during. The Battle of Briton. But I think that was more to shelter from the anti-aircraft fire than the bombs. I remember spending time in them at break with members of the opposite sex. Can't remember what for though!
Also those first few weeks at Tanyard mother became ill. Heart trouble I think she ended up with Angina. Of course at eight I didn't take it too seriously. Mothers were indestructible at that age. I do remember her sister Dolly was sent over from Lurgashall to look after us, and to look after mum I suppose. Aunt Dole as we called her was much stricter than mum.
She had spent a lot of her life working in the woods with granddad Etherington and bringing up her own son. Jim Boxall. Jim at that time was my hero, I suppose you could say. He was tall, dark, and handsome. Although Sister Pat was also his cousin, I think she fancied Jim, and he seemed to spend an awful lot of time in our house. I say that but I think anywhere would have been better than where he lived with granddad Etherington.
God rest his sole, but he was a very unhappy man, and he showed it by making everyone else's life a misery. I think most of his children fell out with him at one time or another, so much so that none of them except for Aunt Dole would work with him. She did solely because he made her feel she should be grateful to him for letting them live with him after she lost her husband. Granddad ruled everyone with a rod of iron including his own poor wife, she would have to walk 2 paces behind him all the time, and at least that's how it seemed. Jim was a nice chap; he seemed to be able to do things other lads of his age couldn't.
As I remember he could play every musical instrument he picked up. I'm sure he couldn't but he could too me. He would sometimes bring a piano accordion with him and would play and sing most beautifully, and we would all sit around in awe. Listening to him all the evening. As you may have gathered I have very happy memories of my childhood.
Anyway we will get back to Tanyard and Aunt Dole. Mum would always walk Joan and me to school though Millhanger every morning. Aunt Dole would only take us half way. I don't think mum knew this, or else she would have got up from her bed and took us, I'm sure she would have. Of course it was right in the middle of The Battle of Briton, and the skies were full of planes. Germans and British battling it out. We were convinced the enemy were after us. 'Get those two kids running through Millhanger at all cost's'. Were the orders of the day as the Luftwaffe left home base.
And aunt Dole was in with them, I swear. As soon as she left us they opened fire, so much so, that on our way home on at least one occasion we picked up a Tracer Bullet with our name on it in the middle of the path. If that was not proof I don't know what was. Our stay at Tankard was short lived, and mother recovered. I suppose. And we were soon moving down the lane to Baldwins. Don't remember how we moved, some sort of truck or something.
The cottages at Tanyard were sold and we had to move out. Mr Humphrey's of Upperfold Farm had bought Baldwins from Blackdown and that was going to be our home. We were living next door to the boss's son Mr and Mrs Ira Humphrey, and their son Michael. Michael was my age. Well 9 months older than me. That seemed a lot at 9 years old, when I was nine he was ten a lot of the time, so I had to respect him. I don't think it was anything to do with the fact that he was twice my size. He was a big boy. He still is. We have rekindled a sort of long distant friendship again after. 'What.' 55 to 60 years of not meeting and it feels good. He is still twice my size. (Not in weight I might add) We have a lot to talk about when we meet.
At Baldwins we strait away became friends, I remember us as Best friends. He on the other hand tells me now that Nigel Coombes was his best friend. 'However' We spent a lot of our time together doing all the things that boys shouldn't be doing, but not doing too much harm I hope. Most of the time we spent. Mucking About. As we called it. From stuffing the stem of dried Hogweed with newspaper and smoking it, too bagging the first egg from the birds' nest to add to our collection.
Neither Michael's parents or mine had much in common, except perhaps the lack of money, although Michael's father was the bosses son, I suspect they were no better paid than dad was. They lived in the same sort of environment as we did. One cold tap over the sink, an oil lamp to see by, and a bucket lavatory way down the garden behind a privet hedge which in the summer was adequate, but in the winter was a different story. My parents had their group of friends, thinking about it mainly family I suppose, and Mr and Mrs Humphrey had theirs. One didn't keep popping into one an others house for cups of sugar in those days as that sort of thing was on ration. I don't think my mother ever went into their house any more than they did ours. When Michael or I wanted to make contact we would stand out in our respective gardens and shout. 'Oi' Usually after 7 PM at the end of Dick Barton Special Agent and say 'Are you coming out to muck about' In later years Michael would have homework to do, as he was at Midhurst Grammar School. That was quite a bore.
Fernhurst always seemed an exciting place for us kids. There were woods to play in and streams and ponds to wade in, and get wet in. During those war years there seemed to be plenty going on. Troops of seemingly every nationality around the village. Many of them only too glad to find friendship among the villagers and be invited into their homes, no matter how humble those homes might be. God along knows there was not much we could offer. In fact it seemed to me it was, what the troops could offer and the ones with bulging pockets were made more welcome than the ones with nothing. Food was scarce, no doubt about it.
We had more freedom than children today; at least we seemed too. Parents didn't need to worry so much about us being safe; we would go off for hours on end playing in the woods. There seemed to be days of endless sunshine in the summer and weeks of cold snowy weather in the winter. Every winter we would go sledging down in the field where the scout hut is, not just children, some times grow UP's too. Michael had the slay of all slays his grandfather had made his for him, a real beauty which made our tin trays look pretty poor. The only snag with it was it went so well more often than not Michael would end up in the stream at the bottom of the hill, and boy was that water cold. I'm sure the seasons were different in those days.
Does anyone remember Ticky-snack pies? I do. They were meat? Pies that we used to collect once a week from the house that is behind the bus shelter up at the cross, opposite the village hall. These pies from what I remember were off the ration. It was said they were made from cats. I'm sure they were not, but what meat they were made of. Your guess is as good as mine. I seem to remember they tasted all right, it was just that they were the butt of all jokes. 'Ticky-snack pies. You don't eat those things do you?' We did. 'What don't fatten will fill' Mother would say. 'You can't be fussy these day, after all there a war on you know' One day, sister Pat was told to pick up the pies on her way home from work. Her boy friend, later to become her husband was going to pick her up from work on his brand new 500cc BSA motor bike, at that time I think she worked in the Post office, and bring her home. Mounting the pillion seat with wicker basket full of pies. They headed towards home. John was well known for his dangerous riding, as he tended to show off a fair bit, anyway when they got to Ropes Bottom he got himself on some gravel on the side of the road, off went Pat, pies going in all directions. They were soon gathered up placed back in the basket, mother was none the wiser, in any case she always said one had to eat a peck of dirt before one dies.
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Of course throughout the war years we had the invasion of evacuees, mainly from London. Say what you want, and it's easy to say now they were made welcome, the truth is they weren't. The billeting officer had to plead with people to take them in, being Londoners they could have been from another planet, and if one asked the evacuees today whether they were made very welcome when they first came I think they would have to say, no. Most of them had never seen a farm animal, whether they knew where milk or eggs came from I don't know, I suspect not. A lot of them had no respect for the countryside. Thinking about it did any of us kids, so perhaps it's unfair to say that. They had a pretty hard time of it, many of them leaving their homes and their parents for the first time, not knowing whether they would ever see them again. London was taking a fair pasting by Hitler, and not only was thousands of people being bombed out every night, hundreds of people were being killed, and those poor kids didn't know what was happening. The lucky ones were the ones where the whole family came with them, they didn't know whether they would have a home to go home too, but at least the whole family were together.
The war ended, as I became 13years old. 15 of August 1945. I had 1 more year to go to school. I think that was the last year that children left at 14. Both my parents and Mr Dumbrell did their best to get me to stay on another year; I remember old Dump saying. 'You are only just starting to learn George, please stay on another year'' No way was I going to stay on, and as for only just starting to learn, I thought, what the dickens have I been doing for the last 10 years if I had not been learning. (I know now what he meant) That last year dragged a bit, from what I can remember.
I had quite a lot of time off due to mumps. Every one had all the normal children's complaints in those days; it was expected and in some cases encouraged. Girls were encouraged to have German Measles, so that they didn't get it later in life. (I don't know whether they are still encouraged now) Anyway I had mumps. We were not given home work to do when we could not attend school, so we just sloped around home, probably getting in one mother's way, but still not praying too hard about wanting to get well enough to go back.
It was soon enough the swelling went down, and mother announced I was no longer infectious and was fit for school. We would not go to the doctor for those sort of things and mother new best. Not only that, it cost to see the doctor, and although mother would pay a little each week into a doctor and hospital insurance fund, the doctor wouldn't appreciate being consulted on things such as that, they were not illnesses just ailments.
As expected I soon recovered and it was back to school, at least for a few more weeks, until July and then it was all over. Dad got me a job working in a garage at Kingsley Green, for a chap called Sid Dibben. They were not having me hanging around the house doing nothing, I had made my bed and I had too lie in it. 'If you have finished school, You'll go out to work and earn a living the same as the rest of us,' Dad would say. 'Every little bit counts' Mother said.
So she took half my wages 10s a week, 5s went in the post office, so that left me 5 bob to spend. Twenty-two and a halfpence to spend on myself. I had never been so rich. I enjoyed the high life; I had money jingling in my pocket as I rode my bike around the village in the evenings. Yes I had a bicycle it was bought for me on my 14th birthday to ride to work on.
I felt like a millionaire. People would say as I met them. 'You are quite grown up now George.' If I met Mr Dunbrell he would say. 'How are you getting on George. You know one day you will be sorry you wouldn't listen to me and stay on for another year' I used to think. What is the matter with that man, I'm as happy as a sand boy, and I have money in my pocket. What else could a lad want? Strangely I don't ever remember regretting my decision, I genuinely disliked school, and I still think I would have wasted my time staying on. I feel as far as I was concerned my education started the day I left.
OK I have never been a great scholar; I wouldn't have been if I had stayed on at school. I like to think I have a fair amount of common sense. I think I have held my own in the presents of Kings as well as paupers. I have travelled the world. I have seen the Orient when it was the true Orient. I have seen some of the oldest living things in this world, the Giant Red Woods of California, walked through China Town in San Francisco, and driven the 7 lane highways in Las Vegas. What more could a Fernhurst schoolboy want in life?
Time and life has been kind to me. I have lived nearly 70 years without hardly a day's illness. I have a wife, 4 children, 6 grand children, and 1 great grandson. I am to go into hospital next Friday for quite a major operation, if I should not survive. (But I hope I do.) I can say. 'Thank you God for my life. And thank you for letting me walk on Blackdown' the most beautiful walking place in the world.
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